I am an early adopter of many technologies. I was one of the first people to start text messaging. Some people really didn’t know what to do with messages I sent them. I remember buying a Nokia phone with a full keyboard to make my text messaging faster. As pointed out by my best man on my wedding day, I was subsequently banned from my mobile provider at the time, Genie, for misusing the ‘unlimited’ text message offer. I loved that fact that it was easy to communicate with people whenever I felt like it, or not bother when I didn’t. I also had friends in different parts of the country I was losing touch with.
I was an ‘early adopter’ of social media. Before Twitter and Facebook I used instant messaging apps like MSN Messenger, but there was a limited audience if you had something amusing to tell the world. When Facebook came along I couldn’t resist putting everything I found funny on there. In fact most of the things I write on social media, except this blog of course, are for fun. We all need some humour when we are bombarded with bad news on all the media channels available today.
I recently started reading The Like Economy: How Businesses Make Money With Facebook which is a must read for anyone who has a business with a marketing function (which is most). It tells the truth about who is on Facebook, how it is designed to be positive (there is no ‘dislike’ button), and how you can engage with your customers and promote your brand. This isn’t as straight forward as it sounds, and he gives some practical advice based on experience. What interested me is the section about how he had to stop ‘goofing’ around on Twitter. He thought that his comedy would ‘break the ice’ and get people talking to generate him contacts and future dealings. In fact, people were put off, thinking that he might not take his job seriously. This is the harsh reality of social media. I would like to be Ben the person who posts silly comments on Facebook and Twitter, but still have people realise I am a knowledgeable and professional person who they would work with. So how do you achieve this?
One of the best aspects of Google+ is the concept of circles. Just as in life, you can choose who sees which sides of your personality. For example you can create a ‘Close friends’ circle and talk about how you are struggling for motivation today (we all get those days), or a ‘Business Associates’ circle for people you are looking to influence in some way, and you only want to see positive messages coming from you. Facebook differs from this core Google+ concept. Facebook is all about sharing as much as you want with as many people as you can. But not long after Google+ was unveiled, a new feature was added to Facebook which allowed you to share your posts with particular groups of friends.
That just leaves Twitter and LinkedIn, as the other big social media sites. Well nobody is going to start ‘goofing around’ on LinkedIn. Its not that kind of site. Twitter, is too open and if you don’t want everyone to see what you have to say, it’s not a good idea to put it on Twitter. The only option I have here is to create multiple twitter accounts. One for serious, business minded Ben, and one for joking around social Ben.
